After a decade in youth ministry, I have witnessed the incredible “self-giving” sacrifice of hundreds of youth leaders across our island. These volunteers accompany young people through the most delicate stages of human development, adolescence and youth. However, true accompaniment requires more than just a willing heart, or creative programs it also requires a commitment to create safe environments (physically and relationally) as a priority.
Young people are not monoliths. Every young person carries their unique story, and every youth group has its own rhythm, style and focus. Because of this complexity, our focus must remain focus on the holistic formation and growth of every young person rather than the success of the organization itself.
In my experience, the best youth leaders are those who view safeguarding not as a checklist of “red tape,” but as the creation of a space of sacred encounter. The late Pope Francis often has referred to the heart of young people as sacred ground in which we must take off our shoes to draw nearer to them. When we create clear boundaries and have protocols in place, we are telling young people: “You are precious to us, and your wellbeing matters more than our organisation itself.” This is an essential foundation for discipleship which is genuine and has a holistic approach.
At a young age, weekend events like live-ins and retreats, become the building blocks of community life within the group, but they are also where the highest level of vigilance is required. These are often the first times a young person sleeps away from home or feels the freedom to voice deep vulnerabilities.
Being trained in safeguarding empowers a leader to:
- Anticipate Risks: Proactively managing the environment so accidents or misconduct are prevented.
- Listen Attentively: Recognizing “red flags” in conversations that a young person might be disclosing.
- Respond Correctly: Knowing exactly who to call so that the leader is never carrying a disclosure alone.
Adapting to current safeguarding standards included in our policy can feel like a hurdle with the limited time volunteers have on their hands but it is nonetheless an essential one. Our desire to help young people explore their dreams and talents must be matched by our commitment to protect them.
Let us continue to strive for a ministry where every young person knows that when they enter our doors, or join our retreats, they are entering a space where they are truly safe to grow.
Mr Benjamin Flores Martin began his youth ministry as a volunteer in a local youth group, and he has pursued advanced studies in spiritual accompaniment, theology, religious education, and youth ministry. He formerly served as Delegate for Youth at the Archdiocese of Malta.